Trying to make everyone happy.

I don't know what to call it may be a human nature or instinct that it tries to please others, some just pleases people really close to them , some try to please whom they call friends and there is a small group of people who tries to please everyone, literally everyone and i might say i belong to this group. Throwing hand to anyone who need them, just like a Super hero who tries to protect the world and thinking it as his duty, and feeling good about it, but the truth is sometimes this super hero gets alone, seeing everyone happy at expense of sacrificing his own happiness, does it really have to be that way?

What if i say, that i have a life to care, even i want to enjoy, and sorry i cant handle your shit anymore, I cant, they feel like i m being really obnoxious. And its my utmost duty to help them and they expect me to be, being there to support them, to be there to help them  and be there 24 by 7, if i want or not.

I am right now feeling really confuse that even if i try pleasing each and everyone of those, still i cant make all of them happy, its not possible actually, because you cant talk and make everyone you know feel better in a day which has just 24 hrs.

I want to end this once and for all, and be a bit mean, be selfish, but i dont know, why i cant, I even feel a bit hesitated just to say someone a NO, being means is practically impossible for me, but anyway i have to give this stuff up and work on my own goals, people around me might support me for now, but in the long run its no use, its not even worth it, Better to be a normal guy and keeping care of really close friends.

Mentor.

Everyone wants to be in spotlight forever, to be known and cheered for. But sometimes you do take a time off from that spotlight and start working on other, making another person, making him or her ready for the his/her big show, consoling them, supporting them, telling them you can do it, and i am here to support you, making them feel that you have full trust on them, and you know that they pull it perfectly.

Sometimes the people you work on are really co-operative and will do whatever you command, and will try there best to do be what they wanna be, and some will be pessimistic, thinking there life is junk, and they are nothing else than a failure,for them you just need to hold there hand and tell them to do there best and u believe in them, and with passage of time they will improve, they might even leave you far behind what you were, they might become more better than you someday.

Then all you have to do is, take the VIP seat of that show, and enjoy seeing them sparkling under the spotlight(this does'nt refers to edward of twilight) pulling it off the way it must be, and making the people around them smile.

this is not my story, its actually my brothers, what i am today, its all because of him, his support, his care, the way he use to look after me, telling me to focus, to be determinant and  do loads of hard work, often seeing my progress secretly and later telling me if i am lagging behind or not, and thanks to his support i achieved what my brother did'nt, but it was all due to him, and i remember everyone cheering for me, but no one knew the real thing was done by my mentor, not by me. and that was my brother, who was there in the background sitting looking at me, satisfied and happy.